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Wanting
Getting what you want and wanting the right things are different achievements, and satisfying a desire you would rather not have does not obviously improve a life.
Name a desire you would keep even if it were never satisfied—and one you would rather stop having.
02deeper
Meaning
Meaning is sometimes located in objective significance, sometimes in subjective engagement, and some accounts require both at once.
Which of your commitments would still count as meaningful if you stopped enjoying it?
03deeper
Wellbeing
Hedonist, desire-satisfaction and objective-list accounts each explain part of what it is for a life to go well and each faces recognised counterexamples.
Would you accept a measurably happier life that contained none of your current projects?
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Achievement
Effort can make a result more valuable to the person who produced it, which suggests some goods cannot be handed over ready-made.
What would be lost if a project you care about were simply completed for you?
05deeper
Narrative
Whether a life has a shape may depend on how episodes are ordered rather than only on how much good each contains.
Does the order of events in a life change how well it went, or only how it reads?
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Ordinariness
Most of a life is routine, so an account of meaning that only counts exceptional acts leaves nearly everything out.
Which repeated, unremarkable activity carries more weight than its description suggests?